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Posted: 2022-08-21 17:19:16

A Nepali mother of two has found herself attending school alongside her son after returning to the same education system she fled at just 15, when she eloped with a man seven years her senior.

Parwati Sunar now studies in seventh grade in Punarbas, her village on the south-western edge of the Himalayan nation.

"I enjoy learning and am proud to attend with classmates who are like my own children," she tells Reuters.

Around 57 per cent of women are literate in the country of 29 million people, and the 27-year-old Ms Sunar says she hopes to become "literate enough" to be able to keep household accounts.

"I think I should not have left my school," she says, explaining the desire to catch up on the lessons she missed, having had her first child at 16.

"I feel good to go to school with mum," says her son, Resham, 11, who is a grade behind his mother.

Five boys and an older woman sit on a low wall in a line, eating from silver bowls. A woman looks through a window over them
The pair spend lunch breaks together at the school. (Reuters: Navesh Chitrakar )
A woman and a young boy ride on a bicycle on a road as fields rush past them
After school they ride together on Ms Sunar's bicycle to a nearby institute. (Reuters: Navesh Chitrakar )
A boy and a woman each sit at laptops in a blue and white classroom. The woman leans over to talk to the boy
They attend the same computer classes at the facility. (Reuters: Navesh Chitrakar )

"We chat as we walk to school and we learn from our conversation," he says, adding his mother hopes he can become a doctor.

As a student, Ms Sunar was below average but a keen learner, says Bharat Basnet, principal of Jeevan Jyoti School.

Her day begins at dawn in a tin-roofed two-room structure of bare bricks.

She shares the space with sons Resham and Arjun and her mother-in-law, with their goats penned into one area.

A rusty white pan hangs off a tree, with more trees, shrubs and a dirt path in the background
Their home lacks a toilet, so the family use a nearby plot of public land instead.(Reuters: Navesh Chitrakar )
A woman washes a boys face with water while another boy works a hand pump. Trees, wooden fence and fields behind them
They bathe in water drawn from a hand pump outside their home.(Reuters: Navesh Chitrakar )

They work in the verdant fields around it, and make a cake for a smiling Resham, who celebrates with a hibiscus flower tucked above one ear.

Three people, two women and a young boy, sit on the flood with a tray of hibiscus flowers and cake between them.
The homemade birthday cake for 11-year-old Resham is made of wheat flour, sugar, and milk.(Reuters: Navesh Chitrakar)

Ms Sunar's husband works as a labourer in the southern Indian city of Chennai to support his family.

A hand holds a smartphone for a video call with a man in a blue collared shirt
Yam Bahadur Sunar, 34, video calls the family from his labouring job. (Reuters: Navesh Chitrakar )

They belong to the Dalit community, formerly known as untouchables, on the lowest rungs of the Hindu caste system, but Ms Sunar says the family faces no ill-treatment over this.

"No one discriminates against me or my family," she says.

A woman and two boys on a wood bed in a brick room, working on school work
Ms Sunar and her sons work together on their homework.(Reuters: Navesh Chitrakar )

After a simple meal of rice and lentils, Ms Sunar puts on the school uniform of light blue blouse and skirt with a striped tie.

Two boys and a woman stand outside a brick hut in blue school uniforms, all brushing their hair. Green fields and forest behind
She and her sons get ready for school outside their home. (Reuters: Navesh Chitrakar )
A group of students of different ages all in blue school uniforms walk along a dirt road with yards on either side
Then they take the 20-minute walk to Jeevan Jyoti.(Reuters: Navesh Chitrakar )

It's fun to be in the same class with Ms Sunar, says Bijay BK, one of her 14-year-old classmates.

"Didi is pleasant," Bijay says, using the Nepali term for an elder sister.

A woman in school uniform stands in a grass yard laughing and clapping her hands. Students walk in a line beside her
Ms Sunar gets along well with her younger classmates. (Reuters: Navesh Chitrakar )

"I help her in studies and she helps me too."

Ms Sunar's efforts could inspire village women thirsty to learn beyond their domestic horizons in Nepal, where they still face discrimination and child marriage is widespread, even though illegal.

"She is doing a good job," says one of her neighbours, Shruti Sunar, who is in the school's 10th grade, though not a relative.

A group of teen girls crowd around an older woman, all wearing the same blue uniform, with schoolbooks in front of them
Ms Sunar gave up her job to go back to school. (Reuters: Navesh Chitrakar )

"I think others should follow her and go to school."

Enrolment of girls in basic education, or grades 1 to 8, is 94.4 per cent, official data shows.

However Federation of Community Schools president Krishna Thapa says nearly half dropped out for reasons ranging from lack of textbooks to poverty.

"Schools lack infrastructure, such as toilets for girls," Mr Thapa adds.

"Most girls drop out during their period because there are no toilets."

A woman sits on the porch of a brick house at dusk. A side roof and a bed-like structure are in the dirt yard
She is determined to get the education she missed out on as teenager. (Reuters: Navesh Chitrakar )

But Ms Sunar, who gave up a job as a housemaid in neighbouring India to return to her studies, is determined to finish the 12th grade.

"This is the thinking now," she adds.

"What lies ahead, I don't know."

Reuters

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